Friday, February 1, 2008

My Sweetest Mom!!!

I have been waiting to write about this for a long time now…
somehow till now never got the right words…I hope I get them
now.!!! There is this well-known saying that,
“God Created Mothers Because He Knew He Could Not Be
Everywhere” So Fact.

I had never given much thought to the relationship I shared
with my mother.Being daddy’s little girl and all that, Mom
always used to be this woman who would make me sit and study,
make me clean the dirty room, make me eat all those yucky
veggies, give me stern warnings for spending too much time
on the phone, not let me watch TV ,tell me what to do, how
to do, what dress to wear , how to tie my hair, everything,,,
every single thing about me she had an opinion regarding it..!!

Well not that papa didn’t offer his opinion on the things that
I did, but somehow Mom’s interference (u can’t actually term
it that... I hope u understand what I mean) was a lot bugging!!
Oh yes!! I loved her a lot and all that even when she projected
the “strict woman” image…!!

Early in my schooling days I used to listen to her, do everything
that she asked me to do; basically I was this obedient,
goody goody daughter…but once I entered into my teens, somehowin
my mind she turned into this “enemy” who never used to let me do
anything I wanted... she had an opinion for anything and everything
that I did and whatever I did was not the right way..!!! We have
had a lot of fights on a lot of issues ranging from the minutest
things to the biggest things ever..!!!

After i finished my Btech degree, She wanted me to send US
with Hubby(Had a thought of marraige) and stay here.. Anyways
I knew I have hurt her ‘n’ number of times with my words and
actions and have made her cry loads of times too…

Dad had been expired leaving mother and daughter all alone.
But somehow these days were an eye-opener about the kind of
person my mom truly was… she is amazing..!!Truly mind-blowing!!

Now I start telling you about this wonderful woman I call
“Mommy”…She is the best person I can ever find on this earth…
truly the finest human being… She is my biggest support in
whatever I do and however I want to do it…I will probably
run out of words if I start telling about all the ways she
has been my constant companion and support all throughout
till now..!! Amma is this very talented woman…the way she
juggles her office work, house work, her interests and still
finds time to take care of me is something that is very
difficult to put into words… she sings well…she cooks
extremely well…she is interested in a whole lot of things
ranging from House cleaning !!! There are a lot of
things that I could say about my mom.

Somehow today I regret all those days I never realized what
a great companion she was… suddenly she has changed from a
shy lady that I knew into a cool mom..!!!As I grow older
she has started gaining this very important place in my
life…!!!That of a mother, best friend, mentor, guide,
philosopher and sometimes this loony chilled pal that
I can hang out with…!!! :)… there have been times that
I have missed her a lot… times I was ill…
times I just wanted her presence with me..!!

I am sure all mothers are as great as mine… motherhood
is a blessing in that sense… I don’t even want to think
about how we or rather I’d have survived without my Mom…
I love her so much that it would take me millions of years
to clear the debt and still I might end up indebted.

I can go on and on and on and on about her …. And fill
this whole blog with only things about her…!!! You never
know… I might just end up doing that ;)

But for now…Mommy...
I love you a lot and I’m so glad that you are my mother!!
I thank God for making me your daughter I hope I can give
you all happiness that you deserve and make you proud..!!!
I am so proud that you are my Mommy... :)